Larisa Luppian: “If it were not for me, Boyarsky would still not be married”
40 years of marriage - is it a lot or a little? On the one hand, youth quickly flew by. On the other hand, over the years, so much has happened. And all this time I lived with one person. So I understand: this is a solid time.
I have no other experience, there is nothing to compare with.
When we got married, we didn’t think about anything like that - how many will live. Came to the registry office and signed. It was July 8, 1977. Although we constantly forget about. Frankly, I was sure that Misha and I would soon be divorced. Yet two artists in the family. Moreover, many were divorced around, including my mother. Misha's parents, however, had a strong family. And I wanted the same. I remember very well the moment when I realized: Misha is the man with whom I want to go hand in hand all my life, to give birth to a child from him. So, it was 1973, I stood under a shower in a communal apartment, in which I rented a room.And suddenly something clicked, closed: I want to marry Misha. And she began to take certain steps in this direction. Was she afraid of failure? Yes. And they were, and repeatedly. We parted, then converged again. At one point, I said: "We either get married or we break up." Civil marriages I do not accept.
At that time I didn’t even have any thoughts of marriage. Everything was fine with me. But once Lara asked: "In what format do you see our relationship in the future?" She offered to sign. And I thought that sooner or later we need to get married.
If it were not for me, Misha would still not have married.
When you have a wife, a woman, legitimized by the state, you have the right to some actions, some norms of male life, which without a wife can not appear. "Meet, this is my wife." You have the right to be with her day and night. This is like getting a title, a new star on the shoulder straps: I was an ordinary soldier - I became an officer. But in those poor times there were few opportunities to prove oneself as a man. And our life after marriage has changed little. There was no money, no apartment, no furniture.There were some dreams: what if we ever go abroad? Suddenly buy an apartment or a car? Gradually, it all came and it turned out to be unimportant. When children were born — first Serezha, and then Lisa, life focused on them. And now also on grandchildren.
There were moments when she wanted to divorce him.
I just on this subject never thought. Lara more consciously related to marriage and to prospects. I lived one day, and Larisa didn’t take seriously the words about divorce.
Now we hardly quarrel. And in his youth, the cause of the dispute could be anything. But nothing that could not be forgiven: no treachery or treachery. Besides, both of us are not vindictive people. Let us have a discussion, and after some time we are talking again.
It's simple. Feelings are either there or they are not. They do not need to be stored, otherwise you risk to be a fool. Feelings need to spend. Larisa is a very cozy woman of my size. I feel comfortable with her. It's a mystery to me, how can you have five or six wives? Perhaps nothing will be written in the memoirs. Well, okay.
We have a pretty boring life. But to me it is sweeter than stormy. It seems to me that men dream of comfort. And the fact that they need long-legged blondes is all a myth.
They say: husband - head, wife - neck. This is not about our family.Our neck is not tossing and turning. And the head is not very cooking. Therefore, we complement each other. We are the lazy old-world landowners. Pretty comfortable living. We decide everything ourselves how we want it. For this we have all the possibilities. But as it turns out, we do not need anything. For the sake of children, we are capable of much. But they, too, turned out to need nothing.
And the main task is to get that “Lego”, which Andryusha does not have (the son of Elizaveta Boyarskaya and Maxim Matveyev. - Approx. Woman’s Day).
Maybe someone such a life seems boring. But she is cute. Wish no crazy. These are children, grandchildren should live with passions and interests.
Our passion is our children. In this regard, we are like Misha. The rest is no longer important. Misha is a very good earner, I am a good hostess. And we are all the time pulling home.
So many years have passed, and we are not tired of each other. If you have a choice: go home or go somewhere else, I go home.
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